A version of this piece was originally published in Bitch Magazine.
Dr. Jessica Zucker is a psychologist based in Los Angeles. She has contributed to The New York Times, The Washington Post, and BuzzFeed, among others. You can find her at www.drjessicazucker.com and on Twitter @DrZucker.
Ryan Alexander-Tanner is a cartoonist and educator based in Portland, Oregon. His comics work is focused on making underrepresented ideas and ideals more accessible. You can find him at www.ohyesverynice.com and on Twitter @ohyesverynice.
