Candid conversation about grief. Beginners welcome.
By Noa Silver and Rebecca Soffer
I shared our pregnancy news early — asserting that I wanted my community with me in joy, but also in potential sorrow. Now that I had miscarried, there were so many calls to make.
How I Rediscovered My Professional Drive After a Stillbirth
By Katie Irish and Rebecca Soffer
For “The Americans” costume designer, returning to work turned out to mean more than just punching the clock
How I Make Real Mom Friends After My Baby’s Death
By Katie Colt and Rebecca Soffer
Bitching about parenthood anchors me to the present — and tests the waters for true connection.
Dude, Where’s My Grief?
By Dan Wolfson and Rebecca Soffer
One guy’s journey through the murky territory of loss, and the map it has left behind.
The Clenching Curse
By Jessica Barraco and Rebecca Soffer
Those hips don't lie. Even in grief.
That Could Have Been Us
By Marjorie Brimley and Rebecca Soffer
It can be painful to see people so obviously in love when I’m breaking inside, but it’s not other young couples that make me fall apart.
My Grief is F*cking Funny
By Emily Rapp Black and Rebecca Soffer
Why I never pass up a chance to laugh my ass off. Especially when I'm grieving.
The Ugliest Side of Grief
By Dalit Kaplan and Rebecca Soffer
Jealousy is already a tough emotion to grapple with. Pairing it with a stillbirth brings out a whole new monster.
Take a Chance On Me
By Sativa Peterson and Rebecca Soffer
Two days after my mom’s funeral, her friend Velma told me she had a surprise for me — and OMG, did she ever.
The Show Must Go On
By Rachel Levy Lesser and Rebecca Soffer
My mom’s life went dark after cancer won out. But it didn’t mean my beloved theater-going had to as well.
Mother Loss and My Lyft Driver
By Carmel Breathnach and Rebecca Soffer
I had a five star ride -- but not for the reasons I'd expected.
Just Sit (and Other Simple Steps to Meditate Your Way Through Grief)
By Sukey Novogratz and Rebecca Soffer
My dad's meditation advice helped me to cope with his death -- and more. Here's how it can help you, too.
The Museum of ‘Before’
By Magdalena Cychowski and Rebecca Soffer
My mother's Facebook profile has become a small souvenir of life (and her) before she got sick.
The End Well Symposium
By Rebecca Soffer
A new conference aims to create a cultural shift in supporting how we die.
Don’t Call Sheryl Sandberg a Widow
Modern Loss speaks with the Facebook COO about micro-stepping her way through grief, 'Option B,' and how she approaches those painful trigger holidays.
The Modern Loss Mother’s Day Gift Swap
Missing someone special on the Hallmark holiday? Sign up to send a gift to (and receive one from!) someone else who is, too.
Grief Revisted: Election 2016 Post-Mortem
The loss I've been feeling this week is real. Same goes for yours.
21 Things You Probably Don’t Know About My Dead Dad
No. 9: If he loved you, he'd write you an insanely clever poem for every birthday, milestone or minor holiday.
We’re Two. And We’re Writing a Book!
Our exciting new project with HarperCollins, and a thank you from Rebecca and Gabi.
Cleaning a Home after Loss with Avoidance and Humor
After my mother died, I could barely bring myself to go through her belongings. Here's how I got through it.
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